Life isn't a gentle blend; it’s a collision of storms. Since 2004, this space has recorded what it actually takes to survive them. You won't find cute motivation crap or easy answers here. 'Bean There' is hard-won wisdom forged in the dirt.We walk the hard path together. It’s not pretty work,but it’s the only work that matters.

Day 179. 125 pounds lost. I got new ink last week and I had several people inquiring about its meaning. I will tell you what it means to me. Somewhere in my lifetime, “I am not enough” became an internalized message. I always thought of myself as a go-getter, I worked hard, and when I […]
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If something inside you is real, chances are it’s not only interesting—it’s something everyone can relate to. Write straight into the messy, beautiful center of it all.
If something inside you is real, chances are it’s not only interesting—it’s something everyone can relate to. Write straight into the messy, beautiful center of it all.