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Unhappy. Unmotivated. Uninspired.

here’s how to steer.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re running on empty and wondering what’s wrong with you; this isn’t weakness. This is emotional burnout, plain and simple. And it’s pretty common. Especially on long journeys where everything starts feeling mundane.

What a trio. I call it the emotional Bermuda Triangle. The place where clarity goes to die. The place where you find yourself sitting in your car in the Target parking lot, holding a protein bar you don’t want, wondering what the hell happened to your life. I know these three. I’ve hosted them all like house guests who borrowed your hoodie, ate your snacks, and just kinda never left.

You don’t have to wait until you feel good to take action. So let’s talk about what to do when you’ve wandered into the Bermuda Triangle of your emotional life and can’t tell which way is north.

unhappy: the fog

Let’s start with unhappy. This is often one of the first warning signs of emotional burnout, but most of us ignore it. We tell ourselves to push through or lighten up instead of listening to the heaviness. This one gets a bad rap. We act like feeling unhappy is a moral failing, like it means you’re not grateful enough or spiritual enough or smiling enough on Instagram. But unhappiness isn’t always catastrophic. Sometimes it’s just the quiet ache that something feels… off. You’re showing up, but you’re not here. You’re getting through the day, but not really in it. And if you’re not careful, unhappiness becomes the fog in this triangle, making you forget what joy even looked like. So what do we do with it? We name it. And then we invite it to move. Not disappear, just move.

So go do one thing that feels good to your nervous system. Not to your productivity list. To your heart. Go sit in the sun. Go pet your dog. Call your best friend and talk about absolutely nothing. Write a letter and don’t send it. Make a playlist of songs that makes you feel good. Do something that tells your soul, “I see you.” The fog doesn’t lift because someone told you to smile. It lifts when you laugh at a goofy TikTok, eat a peach standing over the sink, or blast your favorite song. You don’t need a breakthrough. You just need a little light and one honest yes to something that still feels like you.

unmotivated: the current

Next comes unmotivated. It’s one of the loudest symptoms of emotional burnout; when your brain says ‘go’ and your body just stares back like, ‘nah, I’m good.’ But…. this one is the current. It pulls at you silently. This is the one that makes your dishes pile up, your gym shoes collect dust, and your to-do list start growing moss. And the world’s answer? Hustle harder. Set goals. Make a vision board! Light a productivity candle and summon the ghost of every to-do list you’ve ever ghosted. But you don’t beat lack of motivation with ambition. You beat it with momentum. Tiny, embarrassingly small momentum. The kind that doesn’t impress anyone but gets your body back in the game.

Make your bed. Walk around the block (not a 5k just around the block).  Drink a big glass of water. Set a five-minute timer and do something until it dings. Fold one towel. Clean out one drawer. Text someone back. Get out of your pajamas, even if you’re not leaving the house. This is how you swim out of the undertow. You don’t need motivation to start. You need a starting line so small you can step over it without tripping.

uninspired: the compass

And then there’s uninspired. Emotional burnout loves to rob you of the spark. Not just the big dreams, but the little daily flickers that used to make you feel alive. This one is the compass that stops spinning. Because you’re not sad. You’re not tired. You’re just… blank. You stare at the screen, open the notebook. You walk into the gym, stare at the whiteboard, and wonder if you’re suddenly allergic to effort; you just feel… blehhhhhh. But uninspired doesn’t mean broken. It means your mind is craving something light!

You don’t get inspired by waiting for the lightning bolt. You get inspired by living. Go have a conversation that matters. Go do something creative like paint with your fingers. Rearrange your furniture. Try cooking something you’ve never made. Take a photo of something beautiful and post it without a caption. Inspiration is found in motion. When the compass stops spinning, you have to move anyway. And trust that the direction will return.

still lost? what now

So if you find yourself sitting in that Bermuda Triangle, what some people might call emotional burnout, you’re not broken, you’re just burned out. That’s not failure it’s feedback. And if no one told you: drinking a glass of water counts. Making your bed counts. Laughing at a silly meme counts. Crying in your car and still showing up counts. You don’t need to be a beacon of hope every day.

you’re not done

Unhappy doesn’t mean broken. Unmotivated doesn’t mean lazy. Uninspired doesn’t mean you’re done.

It just means you’re drifting in the Bermuda Triangle. The fog is thick. The current is strong. The compass is quiet. 

You don’t have to know the way out to take a step. You don’t need the map if you still have the muscle to row. Some days the win is brushing your teeth and muttering ‘not today, Satan’ to your own brain. Some days the only brave thing you can do is float.

But if you’re reading this, then you’re still here. And if you’re still here, you haven’t been lost. You’ve been navigating. You’ve been surviving the Bermuda Triangle of your own mind.

And surviving counts (smile).