Life isn’t a gentle blend. It’s a collision of storms.Since 2004, this space has been where I’ve worked through what it actually takes to survive them. No cute motivation or easy answers. Just the work. This is hard-won wisdom, learned the long way… usually the hard way. We walk the hard path together. It’s not pretty, but it’s the only work that matters.

Day 165, 117 pounds lost. So today, I hypothetically stumbled across a tree in the middle of the damn road. I suppose it doesn’t have to be the kind of tree that blocks the road permanently. We’ll call it a branch, but it was certainly too big for my tire to run it over today. […]
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If something inside you is real, chances are it’s not only interesting—it’s something everyone can relate to. Write straight into the messy, beautiful center of it all.
If something inside you is real, chances are it’s not only interesting—it’s something everyone can relate to. Write straight into the messy, beautiful center of it all.